Quote: I can let her go, but for me it seems like all or nothing. I can't let her go a little bit, and retain hope for our M.
The way around this IMO is to concentrate on all the things you can do that will benefit you no matter how things work out with your marriage. Concentrate on things that seem more like self-improvement than self-sacrifice or self-indulgence. This will help you avoid feelings of resentment or remorse in the future.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
