No...I truly wasn't being judgemental....I REALLY did want to see his side of it, which is why I asked the question....I probably simply didn't pose it the the right way. I thought about asking it several other times but didn't...merely because I didn't want to come across the way I seem to have come across. Unfortunatley that's one of the down-sides of the internet and BB's...no tonal inflection
I like to see different perspectives, I like to try to understand why others do things that they do when what they do is different from what I would do in the same situation....it's not a matter of right or wrong for me, it's a matter of understanding someones' perspective. Hopefully that made sense, it did in my head when I thought it.
And honestly I don't know if I'm a 1,4, or 7...I haven't taken the tests to find out LOL...but FWIW...I'm not an extravert, I'm an introvert...been tested on that one LOL. I have to work very hard at being more outgoing...so in some ways I may appear more extroverted, especially on a BB llike this. I'm not really sure if I need to be right...or if I just need to understand (I don't view those two things as the same, but some might). For me there is quite a bit of room for shades of grey and different perspectives.
One of these days I will take the time to take an ennegram test and see where I fall....you could very well be correct.
Thanks for letting me know how I came across....the last thing I wanted to do was offend csw or make him feel that I was being judgemental.
