Lillie... I have realized that 4's do distract themselves...I know I have gotten so caught up in my feelings, and have stayed ( and felt justified staying) in that miserable, authentic place, that it becomes its own distraction...a self absorbed, self-pity one ( the 7's have all the fun). I wonder if the solution-oriented approach is particularly helpful for 4's, to help us move out of our feelings and into practical action.
BTW...I am so pathetically not an artist that I wonder if I really am a 4...the weird thing is that my daughter is talented in drawing, music, etc. I am more of a math/science nerdo. I can " feel" those things, but to do them...forget it!
