I'm so glad your party went off so well and that you had a good time!
There are plenty of people on this BB that I think would be such fun to get together with for a BBQ, you definitely sound like a great addition to any get-together.
As for the OM what goes around comes around, one of these days Kharma is just going to reach up and bite im in the butt! The sad thing right now is that your W is blind to what he's doing to his W....she in denial over the fact that if he's treating his W the way that he is that he'll most likely enevitably treat her the same way at some point.
I'm just keeping my fingers crossed that she'll get her head back on straight before she loses a very good thing. Because I'm telling you....there are many women out there who would love to have a guy like you in their life....but I know you love your W, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed and my thoughts positive that she's going to realize what she's doing and stop before it's too late.
I spent a wonderful Mother's day here at the house with my H and my 2-yr old (almost) son....but I couldn't help but think of you and send you a mental hug. Guess it's that protective sister in me kickin in
