Try not to think too much about the lunch. Lots of men do not have stellar social skills. Perhaps it was a scene like this: Did anyone tell csw about lunch? I thought you told him! I didn't say I was telling him, I thought he already knew. Whatever, let's eat.
Blow it off, my friend.
Hang in there and I found it interesting that your W went ballistic, til I read NOP's account of what's going on inside her cheatin mind. Makes perfect sense. You are blowing her cover and getting a life. Must be driving her crazy that you are not sitting around crying in your tofu any more!
