csw wrote: --------------- I mentioned the party and asked her to be here. She went ballistic. ---------------
Imagine that. Your home, your friends, and she gets mad because you didn't play the 'dead marriage game'.
Do you think she would have reacted any differently if you would have asked her first? What do you think she would have said?
What you did was to expose her underbelly. You did that when you broke up her plan by having a life whether she was in it or not.
The illicit pair's plan for you, is for you to be a puppet, beaten down and conditioned not to fight any more. With you living in your home (that your wife has largely abandoned), like some temporary resident. Everything you do, only with the permission of their contrivance.
I hope that 'hold' on you is permanently broken now that you can see it.
quotes, all puppet like, led by counsellor or other man: -------------------------------------------------------- ... never meant to hurt you.
Let me go and I will stop hurting you. --------------------------------------------------------
Do you see the difference between the above two quotes? On the one hand, she claims that she is not intentionally hurting you, in the other hand,, she has a gun pointed at you. Stay out of the circular arguments and busted logic, that is banter of the addict.
When "She went off the handle for a while", how did you handle that?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
