This little light of mine

[nightrunner]

Hope this does not offend....maybe I am being small minded, but, I think it is time CSW washes his hands of this situation. I understand you love your wife, but my question is this. Please, understand that I hold you in high regard. Can you continue to respect yourself, knowing what your wife is doing, and you still pursue her. I could maybe, and this would be a giant step for me, continue with a marriage after infidelity of my W if it were a single incident, a gork, a 'ground ball with eyes'. But I do not think I could continue after a W's affair, and the fact that she would continue to see the OM after she knew that I knew what was going on. As I said, maybe (probably) CSW is a better man than I, and I am wrong here. How about another question...If she comes around, and all gets back to normal (or in this case, better than before), will you be able to trust her years from now, or will you always be wondering? I guess this just angers me so much. Andy