It would be great if csw could show great passion and desire for his wife.
There are unfortunately, difficulties in doing that at the present time.
First off, if he is going to do that, he needs to be in a position to follow through. I mean by that, horny enough to get by any bad mental imagery or other 'distractions' and still perform. Having a failure at this juncture could have undesired effects.
Performing under adverse conditions is a tall order for any man, or any spouse for that matter. Doing it with a mental movie of the illicit pair in your head, adds a whole new dimension to the matter. Secondly, I am sure that the issue of disease vector has not been adequately addressed for all concerned parties, and we all know that a condom does not protect from all STDs.
There will come a time in the near future when he will be ready to go, his own chemistry will see to that.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
