Quote: I leaned over and touched her knee, and said it was very nice to spend those few moments with her. Then I stared into her eyes for a bit, leaned again and grasped her hand again. I said goodnight, and left the room.
This seems like a good sign but I have to ask why you didn't try to take it further and see if something sexual might happen? I know there might be some rule like you shouldn't sleep with her while she's still sleeping with him but it seems to me that you're working at a disadvantage with a HDW if you aren't making it abundantly clear that you are VERY interested in having sex with her. While I'm getting on your case, I've got to tell you from my POV, based on what you posted here, you didn't tell your W the message I would have wanted to hear after your Dr.'s appt.. Instead of "My low testosterone is borderline, so I can probably fix it with diet and exercise.". I would have wanted to hear "My low testosterone is borderline but I told the doctor to give me the maximum dosage because I want to be a sex machine for the woman I love.". But then again, what do I know? You're probably better off just following NOP's advice.
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