Quote: Seriously, guys, if you've been reading my thread, you've seen where I figured out that I do the same damn thing, and it's a defense mechanism!
M, I'm confused by this; how is this a defense mechanism? And I certainly do not analyze the situation out loud when she is present. Later, I think about certain behaviors; I admit this. Is this productive? Not always.
Oh, I can go a week without analyzing the interactions; I've become much better about not doing so in the past year.
Thanks M.
Wes, I am SOOO confused. You say you are not going to intiate as much, then every action you take is directed toward seeing or spending time with X. Someone wise said, give her time to miss you.
