Yes indeed: David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man. It is the best I've seen to discuss male sexuality and presence within a hetero R. I'm truly not one to promote a non-traditional view, but he does a great job talking about gender polarities and gives specifics regarding how one might behave in situations. The book helped me to find a healthy position other than the testosterone-dripping neanderthal and the wimpy, pc-neutered 'sensitive' male.
Deal! In terms of feedback from the SO if success happens, I promise to ask her.
