But you are right: Do NOT initiate R talks. Ever. Follow her in maybe. But don't start it. Imagine yourself talking with a new GF. Would you get anything but a terrified date if you started to ask "So do you think we should get married?" or "Do you think we're going somewhere?" even. Let the R develop naturally - a new R.
In terms of the physical intimacy, this is just a facet of the R. Wes, I'd use the knowledge of her comfortableness with you to try a new way of expressing your sexuality with her. Focus on pulling her toward you, with her initiating. Watch your posture, staying open toward her (no crossed arms/legs, eye contact, smiling, relaxed breathing). Keep close position if she moves toward you. Literally, reinforce her with your comfortable positivity as she moves toward you, and see what happens.
You already have proven with repetition what happens when you initiate and when you are more aggressive. Your friend's advice about time and patience is wise, and it fits with a pulling mentality.
