Thanks for stopping by. Yeah, I think I need balance and patience. I like the idea of a solution journal of sorts, but I don't know exactly what I'd put in it. I know the real blatant negatives....like the "we can't do this anymore" after the physical stuff, but when we are together or talk on the phone we get along just fine. I haven't had a real argument with her in two months. She smiles and genuinely looks happy to see me, thanks me for anything I do for her, and is fairly comfortable even when we're alone together. So I'm left with two things not to do...1) initiate intimate contact (even though she clearly enjoyed it) and 2) avoid R talks about getting back together. But maybe I should be doing other things and monitoring results. You may be on to something.
Libra, I have thought about my book, but I actually can't figure out where all the time goes. With the time after work it just seems to fly by and before I know it it's bedtime. So I haven't been intentionally neglecting my book. Don't worry....I'll get it done and I'll send you an autographed copy.
I know you are mainly lurking right now, but if you end up needing some support feel free to send me an e-mail and I'll try my best to offer whatever advice/support I can, even though you are ten times the DBer I am.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
