Wes, if you don't give her space to heal and to miss the good things you had, you will not get anywhere. Over and over again I see simple pursuit by you...yes, she is willing to be pursued, but one of the major facts of DR/DBing is that pursuit does not work. You want her pursuing you...you have to give her space and time to miss you. Otherwise she will not have to pursue you as you are always there.
No, I don't think you are nuts. I have D from my XW now for right at 5 months and nothing is going on. She is not even warm and nice with my sons as she wrote she would be a mere 4 months ago. It is clear she still wants nothing to do with me. Do I still have some hope? Yes. Is it diminishing? Yes. Do I still want to reconcile? Yes, but less so as I know it will take a tremendous amount of work and I see nothing to convince me that she will put forth the necessary effort now when she couldn't in the first place and that is why she walked out on us. Hopeful, yes, and with faith that the Lord will carry me wherever He needs me to go. I can not control her, I can not even begin to woo her right now. I just have to wait patiently for her to decide I am and our R is worthy of her efforts. GAL is a good thing for you to do.
