I don't really have some wise advice for you. I tend to count on you for that. But I can relate to how you feel. I want to spend as much time with H as possible so that I can make 'love deposits' but I am afraid that too much time with have the opposite affect. I spent some time with him yesterday and I invited him to my family's memorial day cookout and he accepted. Maybe if you cut down on the time it would help. You would still have contact but the extra time from one another could help start healing some wounds. I think that I would stop the intimatacy for now, you don't want her to totally pull away. Just a thought, not that I'm really in a place to offer advice. Linda
