I'm officially divorced. The papers came through while I was away. It didn't really mean much.
Wes/z,
I too know that you were ready for this, but I'm very sorry to hear that it has happened. Especially since you both say it wasn't what you wanted.
I don't think you're nuts to think that XW is coming back. Nor do I want to think you are nuts. As we have discussed before, my W needs to finish the D because it is what she has decided to do. If you're not nuts, maybe I'm not nuts either to wonder about a post-D reconciliation.
But you're right, you can't worry about it. You have to be ready to move on, DB if you have it in you, and just let what happens happen.
