I know you were expecting it, but I'm sorry all the same. You deserved something better than that. Yet, you have a great perspective on it. It doesn't really matter in the big picture.
Quote: Nobody can slap my hands too badly because I'm not officially divorce busting..
Ha! Very good, Wes. I think I saw you talking about this on another thread - relationship building versus divorce busting. Hmmmm...
I had visualized my existing divorce decree as a glass document, and my DB efforts to be like a sledge hammer that would shatter it to smithereens. I finally looked at my decree yesterday by the way - what a useless piece of sh!t. Doesn't say anything meaningful or worthwhile. Made me more motivated after looking at it once, then filing it away in my 'D' file.
Good to have you back, Wes. Take it slow with her. Maybe think of her as a new female interest playing 'hard to get.' You have new rules with her now, and she'll likely inform you of those rules as she discovers/creates them. Some space/time will allow her to save face by living a little, so that when she does decide to come back to you, it won't necessarily be b/c she was wrong, but b/c you woo'ed her back.
