Hi all,

I've lost track of everyone. I was out of town and took a break from the site. And pretty much also from DBing I guess. I'm officially divorced. The papers came through while I was away. It didn't really mean much. I've prepared for this for several months. So the things I have done that aren't DBing...I called her several times while I was away. Several of the conversations were just talk. In one I told her I missed her. I also said "you know divorce isn't what I wanted." and her reply was "believe it or not it wasn't what I wanted either." Weird. Basically I initiated R talks a couple times. When I got back yesterday it was pretty good. We hung out together, but she had established some boundaries. In my non-DB way I said I didn't think there was anything wrong with dating since we were both single and she said "we've been down that route". I told her that we have not...this was a different route (of course invalidating her feelings). There was a bunch of other stuff during the course of the night so suffice it to say that I did some pursuing and she did some mild rejecting.

That's it for now. Nobody can slap my hands too badly because I'm not officially divorce busting...because I'm divorced so how can I bust it. So what I'm going to be doing is relationship building. So there ;P

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt