Hey Wez, is that Wes with an S?

I prefer Wez. Don't mind me if I change your name to suit my own whim

When I said she would wonder if she's attractive, I meant attactive to YOU.

YOU'RE her H, not the blokes at bars. She shares history with you so your opinion will be more important to her than a guy in a club even if she won't admit it.

If it's any help, I tried out the whole casual sex thing and I hated it; it made me want my H even more.

1 night stand no. 1: had a manhood the size of a pea. I thought 'what are you supposed to do with that?' I honestly didn't feel a thing

1 night stand no. 2: Asked me to marry him on the first night when he didn't even know me Got angry when I kicked him out of bed at 5am.

1 night stand no. 3: got an attack of nerves and couldn't get the scaffolding up

1 night stand no. 4: Got me drunk first and then acted as if I wasn't there.

Fling: Kissed like a vaccum cleaner, was mega overweight, kept calling me 'Joanne' (not my name), asked me to marry him straight away, had breakdown and ended up on depression pills when I said no.

Believe me, Wez, if she does sample any bar people, it will scare her so much, she'll be running for cover straight back into your arms!

I thought my H had a doctorate in Kama Sutra by the time I'd experienced all that!

Jo.