Oh don't worry, I'm sticking entirely to non-physical stuff...or at least I'm not initiating anything. I did try to reassure her about it.
I wasn't going to initiate contact, but after yesterday I just wanted to get a sense whether the talking part of our R is still good. I called and basically just chitchatted a bit then let her go. I didn't make mention of the incident or ask how she was doing. I was hoping by not making anything of it that she would feel comfortable.
Anyway, JRB and Gabriel I think your read is spot on. I have tried to validate her concerns if she has them. I need a woman though to tell me how to get her to express them. It's usually so vague...like when she says "cotton-candy on the brain" or "it feels like I'm walking through deep water". I don't know what that means in terms of what she thinks of our R. It usually comes up when are R is good. I try the "what do you mean by that.", but haven't really got a good feel from her. Maybe I need a venusian translator. I think when she has cemented her thought processes that she'll come right out and tell me.
Oh well. I better get some work done. I have cotton candy on my own brain today.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
