Wow Wes!

Some very nice steps in your sitch.

But be careful. The same events are likely being seen very differently by the two of you.

In the same way that you'd go back to the beginning in terms of boundaries and personal space for a new GF who reacted that way to you, give that gift to your W as well.

Don't make her do the work of rejecting you while you merrily press on to test her boundaries. Try backing off while polite and light, and keep a level of intimacy going non-physically for the next few encounters. And validate her feelings when she expresses concern.

Nicely done, Wes. You two definitely have some unfinished business.

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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