Any hope after divorce? Part deux

[sage]

Sage? Are you out there? You were always the one saying "don't do dark" and I feel you're right. Now what do I do? Just more of the same? So fellow fool committee, your thoughts?

Hey...I'd say more of the same for a bit and see how it goes. I do wonder about the physical advances that you've made with w...when I read the description of them it often seems like w isn't enjoying herself...am I reading that wrong? If not, I'd say really back off on those because physical advances that aren't welcome can feel unrelentingly invalidating...work on meeting w's other needs first...(what's her LL? I forget).

Tell me again...have you read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"?

Sage