Quote: If things had only started this way a month ago I might have been able to derail this D train. I think there is no chance that it will be called off before we're divorced. Unfortunately I feel like we are getting more connected every day. I think I'm finally on to what may work. Actually pursuing. ... Sage? Are you out there? You were always the one saying "don't do dark" and I feel you're right. Now what do I do? Just more of the same? So fellow fool committee, your thoughts?
Not Sage, but I had this thought. Is it possible that what you are doing is working because the D train is further along? I sometimes think that my W would let our R heal some more, except that she is afraid that will set her back on this D course she is on. The closer she gets to putting a stake in this M, the more comfortable she seems. You might be right, that in your sitch pursuing was what was needed. I offer the other possibility as a consideration.
If what you are doing now seems to be working, I say keep doing it.
