Wes,

I had a thought forgive me if you've already addressed this.

Does your w need to move ahead with the D in order to pursue her dream of law school? IOW, is she dependent on some splitting up of assets in order to afford it?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.