Yowee, Wes, I was not fully versed on your sitch...I was unaware of the infidelity. Perhaps you are best off this way? You certainly deserve someone who is willing to give as much to the R and M as you. Maybe your STBXW isn't that particular person for you? I am beginning to realize that my XW must have under-estimated what it really took to blend families and finally decided that it was just too much effort for her. She is a little short on conflict resolution skills and these things don't happen without some conflict. On top of that, she has self-esteem problems and doesn't know how to fix those either. Even worse, she decided that getting help was no longer an interest for her. We lost, we all lost, but there is a bright future for all to be had...alone, with new people, with God. Take care.
