No cutie, I meant that I have been divorced twice and each time it was the wife that insisted...but, two different women.
Wes, I agree with Gabe on the kids and lack of discipline at your W's home. I also agree that your W needs to find a reasonable resolution the two of you can work together on with respect to the kids if a reconciliation is to occur. It seems in second marriages, a divorce occurs because of the kids in like 90% of the cases. It seems to me that either insufficient or poor communication about child-rearing philosophies is a result. My xw never told me, "Now, you have to realize that I can make any commment about your sons, but don't you DARE say anything about my sons or daughter, especially my daughter, that is less than flattering. If you do, I will dump you in a heartbeat." If she had told me this was going to be the sitch, I would have never even proposed to her. Of course, for whatever reasons, she has blown way out of proportion many issues that served her purpose of justifying her divorcing me. The anger thing is yours alone to work on. I suggest you really get some help with that since only you can do it and if you are like me, it is a very, very difficult thing to get a handle on and requires a lot of intense effort to control, especially when the buttons are all pushed at the same time. Take care of yourself...work on yourself...GAL! And, by all means, don't give up!!!
