I talked to one several times at the beginning of this. I haven't in quite a while. I still have one more session. The last time we almost exclusively focused on me and GAL. I know I still need to do things to get a life and I don't want to waste the last session on that. But maybe I will go ahead and use the last one. Couldn't hurt. I still think it's preferable DBing before divorce than after. Besides...maybe I just need someone to give me a little focus.
Thank you for your personal WA insight. Nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of. I think we live and learn and do the best we can do at that point in time. I didn't do anything useful to save my first marriage and look back and think I should have tried something else or tried harder. From reading other posts I felt like she allowed a lot more physical stuff than a lot of other WAWs.
I can't get over the feeling that she really has strong feelings for me but is going to proceed with D anyway. I almost feel like it's because of strenghtening feelings that she wants to be done quicker. I could be wrong but it's more like she is afraid things will be the same so despite how she might feel she wants to avoid coming back. A D would cement that and back me off (or at least that's what I think).
Don't know. Thanks again Geneva
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In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
