Wes, DBing is about us. That being said, please understand you can be a very successful DBer without your marriage being saved. As you now realize, some things we can't control...such as a WAS who had made their mind up to divorce and is pushing it through. I mean, my xw even typed up the decree and other forms herself. By the way, I have been divorced by the wife for the second time now for 4 months yesterday. We were divorced in 3 months from the time she filed and only that long because I delayed. Hang in there. You will be fine.
