No 2 x 4's for you, Buddy. We all backslide now and then. And you can reset your compass now with her comments: Show her that these changes are lasting, and feed her self-esteem with WOA regarding specifics that she has going - beyond mothering.
Quote: I don't know that all the R talk and non-DB stuff was that terrible. She always chased me in this R. It is probably a 180 for me to chase her a bit.
Might that include moving 200+ miles to follow her to law school? If so, I wouldn't share that just now, but it is something you'll likely want to consider. Also, in doing so, would you be willing to shed the house (selling it) after you give her half of equity to her?
Hard questions, but you might want to start chewing on these possible directions to better prepare yourself for those potential forks in the road.
