Hey Wes,

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But one thing bugs me. I've been giving advice and I think I don't know squat about DBing. At least not successfully. I've done nothing but get closer and closer to divorce. So I think I'll quit giving advice...at least about saving marriages. I know quite a bit about divorce.





I actually stopped by to tell you that I saw an awesome post you made to someone ( a newbie) and that it was full of great DB advice! So, while I know that you're feeling quite unsuccessful right now re. DB'ing, I don't agree.

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My response: Well if you are in a hurry just bring it by work tomorrow and if it looks okay I'll sign off on it and maybe you can get it back to the lawyer the same day. I know you are anxious to get your maiden name back. She said "I'm not in that big of a hurry".




So, in the midst of your "non-DB'ing" may I ask why her reply back to you didn't give you pause?

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.