Hi Wes - I'm sorry that your W is on the fast track to D. You really are a great guy and you deserve the best.
I'm really proud of you for not answering her calls yesterday. I think it showed that you needed your space. And you think that she might have actually been a little jealous to find you in the house with 4 OW? Good. She should know that other women enjoy your company.
I admire you for still being a good dad to your s-kids. Even if your W doesn't want to be your W anymore, it sure sounds like they still need you as a dad.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm here for you Wes.