Checking in again! I can understand your reluctance to post right now. You have been offered a lot of advice here! Many of your BB friends are angry FOR you right now because they care about you. Many have written to you since the beginning and are heartbroken because of what has happened....yet again.
And truly, I think that the "yet again" is the reason for all the harsh words about your h and the harder stance that many of us want you to take. I think that many here are starting to see a pattern and we do not want you to be hurt.
You have done an unimaginable job of Dbing. Your patience seems to be limitless! I think that I wrote to you once before that you seemed to take the "kinder, gentler" path of Dbing and if that didn't work for you then maybe you should try the "tough love" path. (Ellie's suggestion to re-read the LRT is a good one, I agree wholeheartedly.)
You know, you are not dealing with someone who is unaware of the techniques of DBing. He knows perfectly well what steps you are taking. It may be time to throw him off track a bit...make him work for it a little. (Do something differently than how you've done it in the past.) I think that he will have more respect for you in the long run.
Whatever you decide and how ever you choose to handle this, I will support you and continue to be here for you. Take your time to reply if you need to BUT please let us know that you are ok.
