I am sorry I missed you this weekend. I don't normally get on-line during that time but I wish I could have been there for you. I am so happy that others were there to offer support and advice.
You do sound different Deb, angrier and more determined. I think that this is a step in the right direction for you. You are going to need anger to get you through this.
I still think that your h does not want to "go" anywhere but I guess now that I can see that that includes giving up ow. You are going to have to force a choice here because it is obvious that leaving it up to him is not going to work for you.
Taking a stand at this point may just get you the respect you deserve. Do not be afraid Deb. You have nothing to lose...only more of the same bull that you have been dealing with for a long time now.
