deb, first i think the best thing to do would be to stop and breath. forget about the financials and kicking him out and confronting him with proof and him completely.
you are going through he|| and the last few days have been murder on you. what can you do right now, for you to stabalize your emotions? get selfish right now and think only about YOU.
another poster suggested you leave for a few days, and i have to completely agree. when we are so emotional about everything it is extremely hard to make decisions and see what is really going on. and you up and leaving for a few days without a word or call may go a long way in giving him the jolt he needs to get.
right now you need to find a way to get your life back under your control. he is controling everything. when was your last smile? your last laugh? dont give him the power to take away your happiness. get away and take back your life.
i dont mean minimize the pain or the problem. but right now you are so wrapped up in everything that physically you are ill. turn your focus back to you and only you.
stay with a friend or family, or heck come on and stay with me for a few days, i could use the company!
if nothing else, stop and breath. no matter what you are gonna make it.
