thanks all, this does help.

I can start getting food, etc. together. I've thought off moving to a less expensive place, even been looking at rental ads int he paper. I hate to move S before Jr. high starts, but I may have to.

I have seriously considered going back to school in another town. I really don't like the town we're in, I'm bored with this job and about maxed out salary wise any way.

Is it possible for me to get utilities on the house we're in in my name only?????guess I never thought of that.

I could possibly borrow some money from my family, but that is a difficult situation. we don't have any family within 50 miles to move in with for a while.


been around awhile!