Quote: Maybe I will tell him I'm not ready to discuss it.
I like this option. Also - how about not coming home right after your class - how about coming home at, say, three am? And being a little mysterious about where you were?
Look - the bottom line is, your H is still really confused. It may be that only the real threat of losing you will wake him up. Instead of kicking him out, or giving him an ultimatum - how about doing something totally out of character? I like the idea of postponing the conversation, then informing him you are going away alone for the weekend. Be mysterious. Let him sweat it. Go somewhere and have FUN for the weekend. Don't answer your phone.
You need to shift his focus OFF of "hmmm, who do I really want, W or OW?" and onto "OMG, I'm not ready to lose my W!!!! What if she sleeps with another man???"
