I talked to a preist, he says it's time for me to lovingly but FIRMLY confront him, to even tell him I'm ready to go to the attorneys, and that the church would support a separation or even D. That was pretty astonishing from him.

I lost 2 posts, am trying to hurry because I have to do class tonite...it is a reschedule from last week and I don't have a sub.

I got a snotty email from H about 2, saying how I could surely understand his hesitancy (all my fault, blah blah blah)....and then one at 4 saying he's sorry for being so hot headed. I've responded to neither one.


Don't know what I'm going to say, maybe just repeat my email. I could use any thoughts. Maybe I will tell him I'm not ready to discuss it.


been around awhile!