Okay, so you sent it. Are you prepared to follow through? You absolutely HAVE to this time. What are your plans for son this afternoon and this evening? He should not be there when you confront your h. It is too traumatic for him. And the last time you were unable to follow through because your son was so upset (understandable on both parts, of course).
Set a list of priorities. Son first. Get a script ready secondly. (What are you going to say to h?) If you need some input post some things here. I will stay on until about 5pm EST to help where I can.
