When was the last phone call on the log? April? Now it's what, May? How do you know he wasn't telling her he was committed to your M? How do you know he's not handling a hysterical ex-OW who's making him crazy? And, he can't talk with his wife about it because then she'll get upset.
Honey, we don't know what it's about, do we? So why not figure it's not about anything. Is he ML with you? Yes. Is he kind to you? Yes. Does he get emotional when you talk about ending the M? Yes. You can go on with this list -- I know you can. This is all good stuff. Appreciate it.
Don't make it into a snake. Make it into a rope. And calmly step over it.
