We cross-posted. I can't blame you for what you did but unfortunatley, you just made yourself more miserable by snooping. I have to tell you I would have done the same thing but I really can not advise you to keep doing it unless you WANT to work yourself up into such anger as to kick him out.
Breathe, relax, and calm. Please consider giving it 24 hours. You will have our support no matter what you decide but please do not act out of anger (and fear).
