I REALLY think that you need to apply the 24 hour rule here. Say nothing until you have a chance to sort through your feelings. Please try, you can do this. DO as others have suggested and distract yourself until you can think clearly.
I know that you think that this turn of events puts you back to ground zero but it doesn't! All those positives that we have been seeing STILL really happened and are still happening.
Are you really ready to kick him out? Cause that's what it's going to take. You can not give him a choice, hell you have been giving him a choice for a year now and he hasn't made a move. So my point is, do NOT threaten unless you truly mean it.
I think for your sanity that there needs to be consequences to his actions but not right now. Give it 24 and then let's see where you are.
