Believe me I'm sympathetic and you have to do what you feel is best for you.
I think he is trying but it will take him as long as it takes him. We each process and handle things differently.
Your choice is do you want to give him more time realizing that right now this is where he is at in his process?
Keep working on your GAL. Something Calystra always asked me and I never realized the full extent of it is, What would I be doing different if I were divorced? Well, I am getting more of a life but I'm not doing anything I couldn't have done when I was still married.
Obviously my detachment hasn't been great lately but it sure is a nice place when I'm there for a bit.
Just try to sit out the emotional storm before reaching a decision on any action or non action.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
