See I told you....real soon! LOL Just finished up some yard work and am taking a break before yet ANOTHER shower today....sigh.
Quote: I can see that H did try to tell me how unhappy he was.
Hmmmm....possible translation: H was trying to make YOU responsible for his personal happiness AND make you responsible for his consequential actions. We can not do either of these things for our spouses just as they can not do this for us. It creates a co-dependent atmosphere and hinders our GAL plans!
Be happy Deb. You are no longer walking a tight-rope. One mis-step is not going to destroy everything for you.
Again, I will point out that your h seems to be drawn to you when you are doing your own thing (not temperature-taking) ie, planting the flowers.
