Hi Deb, I think you said it very well in what I pulled from your last post (directly below):
Quote: I gotta keep my mouth shut and keep focusing on positives, drawing him to me...
I have been trying to keep up with your sitch and personally (I think) there are many positives going for you right now. I think that you need to drop any conversation/insinuations, etc.. about ow or your H betraying you. From different things you have relayed here, it is sounding like he is trying hard (as hard as he is able to right now) to get back to where he should be. It will take time. Things will definitely "pop up" that might make you "wonder". It doesn't matter .. you have to keep looking at the whole picture and knowing that it is gradually getting better.
While doing that .. you need to continue "morphing". Continue working on you! Keep doing "something different" .. that may catch your H off-guard. (Of course you'll make sure the "something different" will be good things!)
Keep On Keeping On, Deb. I really think you are getting there.
