I want to thank you for your replies. I was just wandering if if sending a card could help matters. I think she is unhappy in her relationship. She has no where to go and she has burnt to many bridges throuhout this divorce. Her on parents really don't want nothing to do with her. It seems the OM is a control freak. I think she is living in fear. This is my anoligie. I was also wanting to know if making a call would be appropriate. He has told me he don't allow her to talk to me. I feel for her and my children.
