La, Thanks for the reality check here. I can see alot of trueth in what your saying.
Fish, Take baby steps. Letting go is a slow process for me. I started by self improvement. Now I'm going out with friends occasionally. I concentrate on my boys whom need me now more than ever. My first priority is my boys, and to take care of them I know I have to take care of myself, so thats what I do. Instead of focusing on her, focus your energy of something else, anything else. I know this isnt what you want to hear. Its not what I want to say, because it applies to me. Simple trueth is, our life has to go on. If there is ever a healthy chance for our R to work, it will be after our life has moved on. Its difficult, but I try to put my faith in God. Hope
