H has declined my last two invitations. He has seemed interested but he has had prior committments. I can't try to read into it..........
No more feelings...........strictly actions!!!!!!!!
I will repeat this until I get it!
May I speak... er, write... frankly?
I did notice in a previous post of yours where you used to push... specifically that post was something like, "Can we go to the movies tomorrow? " H says something like, "I don't know if I'll be available" and then you reply with something like, "Well, OK, but if you are available tomorrow, then can we go to the movies?" Pushy.
So, yeah, big difference!
But all the same, calling him repeatedly with invites, even if you can toss it off with "no problem" instead of pushing should the invitation be declined, that's still pushy, yanno? He declined your last couple of invites - for whatever reasons - but you want to keep on doing it until you "get it". That's still pushy, Tessa!!!
We go by results. H's not accepting invites... so... back off the invites. See if that 180 gets his attention after a while. And if it doesn't, you can always extend one invitation.
