I just took the quiz. I scored the highest in PT (12), coming in second was a tie between WOA and QT. It fits...
I don't think I can suggest to H to take this yet. He just wants to work on our friendship right now. So I must respect that and not try to push anything.
I really want to ask him to eat dinner tonight - but I think I need to back off for a while. I did send him a few text messages on my way home from work. 1. Asking if he needed cash. He replied he had enough and said "you keep it, you deserve it".
2. I thanked him for mowing the grass and disposing of the dead squirrel. (I am thinking that he wants to feel appreciated, so I'm making it a point to thank him for anything that he does for me. I want to develop the habit, so it stays for good.)
3. He then sent me a text stating that he also took away the old storm windows - I replied Cool, thanks. He sent back, your very welcome. (Again, showing appreciation, I do believe that is important to him)
So I'll resist the urge to call him and ask to eat dinner together. I have heard from him every night for at least a week now, so maybe he'll call me. I do want to talk about my day at work. I had a really good shift and I feel like I'm starting to fit in. I'd love to share that with him. But I have to remember not to talk too much.
I'm thinking of closing this thread and starting a new one. One in which I stop whining about my feelings and start some extreme DBing. I've been reading through the older threads and finding alot of valuable information. And I've come to the conclusion that it is time to stop feeling and start doing!!!!!!
