I read the post you wrote on Kim's thread. I do have some thoughts but it will take me too long right now. I need to get some work done here at home. But I will get back to you.
Since I posted about being unsure of whether or not I should take off to be a good hostess to H family, I have been thinking about it. My MIL has expressed to me that she wants me to join them in the weeks activities. I told her that I wouldn't if my H didn't want me to, simply because he doesn't get to spend time with them very often. She understood but said she would be dissappointed. Well since I don't know where my H and I will be in reference to our situation, I think I'm going to go ahead and just take the week off. Then I can just go with whatever comes along. If we are at a point that he doesn't want me to be with them, then I'll make other plans. I'll fill my days up with projects that I have been promising my Mom I would do for her at her house. I can also see if my Gma needs anything done. That way I have some place that I can go if I need to. I think that will be a win-win solution.
Well time to get to work. I'll catch up on your thread this evening.......