Honestly, NY, I did get offended and I am sorry for that as I shouldn't have.
I agree that any new information is an opportunity to learn. However, I had a different interpretation of what you presented. I did learn things about myself. And I have learned how to handle things differently as they occur in my relationship. I'm taking the portions of it that fit me and my relationship and using it to my advantage. I've never said you were wrong, I have just said that I do not agree 100% with the information you presented.
I see you post lots of good advice and good information on this board. I have taken alot of it and applied it to myself and my situation. I respect your insight and your knowledge. However, I do have my own interpretation of things sometimes and from time to time we're not always going to agree.
